The Fit, The Fab and The Face: Outfit and Inspo Thread

[danielledanielle]

I realized we don't have an OOTD, outfit of the day thread, which isn't needed but can still be a lot of fun.  It's dress up for me, but make it adult.

This was part spurred by my natural hair journey, Tress Trek - A Transition Journal from Relaxer to Natural and NYFW and Zendaya.  99% Zendaya.

The Fit- this can be your attire, or what has arisen from the Capsule Challenge, your makeup bag.  Hair and fragrance "fits" count, too


The Fab - What you loved enough to be inspired by or loved the most about your look


The Face - the proooodduccctsss, so I can add to my loves list, y'all. Or a pic of your face

Note: posting your actual self is optional.  Feel free to post pics or lists of what you included.  This really is about seeing what others are doing and getting inspired to try or retry things.

Also feel free to cross post to existing threads (and browse)

Capsule Makeup Collection Challenge 2025 

What are you wearing in 2025?? 

How Are You Styling Your Hair Today? 

What are you wearing, Fragrance edition! 

[Buootiful]

The lipstick combo looks fabulous! @itsfi  I've not used a shoulder bag but thinking to get back into them but crossbodies are so comfortable . Do they stay on your shoulders cuz the arm holds it in or falls off easily?

[itsfi]

@Buootiful, crossbodies are definitely comfortable and convenient too. I don’t find this purse to fall off easily - double handle straps are more secure but I haven’t had any issues with this staying on my shoulders - certainly it’ll stay better if my arm helps to hold it in place / presses it against my side, but it’s stayed when my arm is not holding it. 

@PDXXXX, the green of this bag is one of my favorites. 

[PDXXXX]

@itsfi I've been so in love with that shade of green lately. The bag has such a nice shape to it as well!

[PDXXXX]

That green purse looks amazing @itsfi : I love how the color pairs with your jacket! How do you like the Sephora Reveal the Real?

[itsfi]

@PDXXXX, I’ve really been enjoying the Sephora Reveal the Real. Coverage-wise, it’s  a cross between Tower 28 SunnyDays and Urban Decay Bond Foundation, both of which are favorites. The finish is between those two base products as well - satin like finish.

One light layer will do a fair job of evening skin tone - the redness around my nose and parts of my cheeks will still be a little visible. A light second layer on those areas will provide more coverage. I do have to use concealer around nose. I have found myself looking at my skin when I’ve used this and think “huh, this makes my skin look really nice.” It lasts all day if I set it. 

[danielledanielle]

@itsfi I had to reread the intro, because I was envious that you could still wear this in December @itsfi , but now I've realized that is not at all the case....ahhhh, it's good to reread. 

I love the moto jacket.  I love it as a sweater, as a hard edge blazer, they are so versatile.  Instant cool, instant chic.  Maybe this is your edgy piece.

Also, 😂 at the pants.  I think I picked up a pair of satin trousers for future family gatherings for that reason. 'Tis the season.

And yay to finding a new fave out of your comfort zone!!! I feel like that there's an exception to everything.  You can 9/10 not like a pattern, print, style, shade or fit, but then something happens, and there's something that works.  There are enough hoop earrings to gift, this pair is yours.

[itsfi]

@danielledanielle, this was literally from the 1st of the month. 😂 This year has been so different than past years as far as weather goes for us - chillier fall, earlier winter weather, tornado and tsunami warnings, etc.) In the past, I would likely be able to wear this outfit without a heavy coat  through about mid December (right now), but my heavier clothes have been moved to the front of the closet for a couple of weeks. No more sunny high-60 degrees in the afternoon. It’s still sunny but my word, the air and wind!! 💨 Future looks will be coat heavy. 🧥 

[PDXXXX]

THE FIT: I was in a vulnerable yet simultaneously "come at me" mood yesterday. Moods like that are when I use fashion as almost a shield. On the one hand, I needed something soft, vulnerable, and like a hug like this blouse I got on sale at the Theory Outlet last summer online as I was feeling vulnerable. On the other, I needed a lot of edge which I tried to convey with these dark grey J.Crew jeans I got on sale, disheveled hair, leaving the bow on the blouse untied, and most importantly the ring I will show in "THE FAB." I paired it all with my Nine West round-toe suede burgundy wedges (you can see the color more accurately in "THE FAB") which have elements of softness and edginess but also simply are very, "me" and true to me style.

THE FAB: Here you can better see the softness of the blouse I chose and the true color of the wedges I wore. But most importantly my singular accessory: a ring I bought on sale at Banana Republic about 20 years back for about $18 I wasn't sure I wanted at the time but is now one of my favorites. This baby is a real gobstopper and size wise comes up about three-quarters to the knuckle. I'm a big fan of large cocktail rings when I need to be classy yet feel hard and I feel it has big "come at me" vibes.

THE FACE: inspired the outfit to some degree. For my base, I used one pump of my Armani Beauty Luminous Silk Natural Glow Foundation mini mixed with one drop of Clarins Santal Soothing & Hydrating Face Treatment Oil 1 oz / 30 mL , concealed with Westman Atelier Vital Skincare Brightening Concealer With Hyaluronic Acid Atelier L1 and set with Tarte Smooth Operator Loose Powder. I just got the HUDA BEAUTY Icy Nude Eyeshadow Palette so wanted to try it and base the overall color scheme on that. Then decided to use Gucci Luminous Matte Beauty Blush in Bright Coral and define a bit with my Jones Road Bronzer. And used Anastasia Beverly Hills Lip Velvet Liquid Lipstick Softy topped with Jones Road Cool Gloss in Clear. I'll add the hair (which was on 4th-day wavy/curls looking dry and frizzy as all heck) in case anyone else is playing with similar issues and say Jillian Dempsy's Men's Pomade rocks all the socks when you need to define and smooth your waves or curls and frizz and somehow does it without making your hair look greasy.

But really, the ring. Does anyone else have a favorite "come at me" accessory or item? It really is sort of my Superman Cape on days I need to feel stronger.

[peculiarzmakeup]

Fantastic look, love your pose it’s so beautifully you as soon as I saw these photos the word “joy” radiated in between my ears. I love the polkadotted vibes. Your blouse and makeup pairing is so inspiring. Each detail so meaningful 🩷 @PDXXXX 

[PDXXXX]

@peculiarzmakeup you are the sweetest as always 🙂

[peculiarzmakeup]

I learned it from you 🩷 haha how cheesy am I but truly your the best! I’m glad your apart of BIC @PDXXXX 

[PDXXXX]

You're too sweet and cracking me up @peculiarzmakeup . I love how kind and supportive you always are and am so glad I get to connect with you through B.I.C. as well 🙂

[Buootiful]

I love the pose and gives off the attitude you were going for. Love the femininity of the blouse @PDXXXX 

[PDXXXX]

Thank you so much @Buootiful 🙂

[itsfi]

Ooouh, I love the softness of your blouse @PDXXXX ❣️And the pairing of it with the ring and its significance for you. 

I don’t have a “come at me” accessory (or not one that immediately comes to mind), but now I’m thinking I need one. Looking for the right piece feels like a project I’m down for! 

[PDXXXX]

I want to see what you get if you find one, @itsfi! I'm a fan of rings or blazers to get that edge, but I can think of so many things we all use as our "power through it" pieces or even makeup looks!

[itsfi]

I will definitely let you know @PDXXXX. I'm also going to spend some time thinking through if I have something I almost subconsciously reach for or use/wear for this. 😍

[danielledanielle]

That ring is major @PDXXXX .  It's like brass knuckles, but make it cute 🥰 🤣. I also love a wedge heel.  That can be equally fashionable and a weapon 🤣

Usually if I'm feeling edgy, there's leather, pleather, skulls, bustier/corset or at one point -   biker boots -  involved.  The latter I don't have anymore, but I did get some BR flats with studs on them. I suppose a moody lip (dark brown, black, berry) is another item/thing.

But, I also just gravitate towards those things.  I feel like my look is sometimes built into my personal, much like you can use it like armor.  I project the version of myself I want to be or feel to be, and essentially what aligns best for hair, makeup and clothes will up my confidence when it matches what I think/want.  Same is true is there's a mismatch, like I'm immediately focused on what's off.

[PDXXXX]

Ooh, I want to see those BR flats @danielledanielle ! You put it so well when you said, "I feel like my look is sometimes built into my personal, much like you can use it like armor.  I project the version of myself I want to be or feel to be, and essentially what aligns best for hair, makeup and clothes will up my confidence when it matches what I think/want." I was trying to sum that up and couldn't quite figure out how to say it and you nailed it!

[danielledanielle]

Forgive the face, trying to do a bunch of things at once and get a full body shot

The Fit: You already know, RTR. I think I need these leather joggers.  They are very comfy

Shirt is one of my own, scarf is I think a knock off of Alexander McQueen, which I only recently realized.  I just like it because it has skulls

The Fab: How this came together, I was hoping the joggers would match tonally, but it was an exact match.  Also the scarf just works, it's moody, but cute.  The joggers run large, so it accentuates the hips, but the corset is giving hourglass, so yesss.  Also, the zipper on the corset zips down not up, so less likely to pinch.

The Face: This week's Cheek challenge was Very Villainous.  This is Maleficent.  I practiced the contour the night before, but it didn't pop the same on a Monday.  I've forgotten the lip 🤦🏽‍♀️.  The VBB liners are super creamy, but didn't play nicely with something.

[peculiarzmakeup]

The face is 🙌 I absolutely love the coziness and professionalism to this photo if only there were a word for it but it would be an exemplary way to describe fashion on all pillars. I get all Shakespeare when talking about fashion but I truly admire your tastes and outlooks so thankful you share 🙂 @danielledanielle