Description of activities continued
ROW 3
Digital Detox Before Bed (30 minutes):
Unplug from your electronics for a minimum of 30 minutes before you go to bed. Let your unwinding time really be about unwinding. Remember:
- If reading on your Kindle, listening to music or a podcast on your phone or using an app like Headspace is part of your unwinding routine, keep doing those activities - unplug from social media, work, etc.
- If 30 minutes seems too long, start off small, with a 10 or 15-minute detox and work your way up from there.
Exercise (30 minutes):
Let's get our bodies moving. Indoors or outside. On your own or with others. Let's get some exercise. At least 30 minutes if you can - all at once, or broken up in smaller cycles throughout the day. If you're not feeling up to doing 30 minutes or it's not in your best interest to try for 30, go for 5 or 10. Exercise can come in many forms, including:
- Walking, running, biking, hiking
- Raking leaves, chopping wood
- Wall workouts, yoga, pilates, resistance bands, weights, doing balance exercises
- Tai chi, martial arts
- Swimming, racquetball, pickleball, soccer, volleyball
- Dancing, HIIT, circuit training, bootcamp, crossfit, aqua fitness, rock climbing
Free Space:
Ahhhh, the free space! This square is all yours for the taking. You can choose to undertake a self-care activity for this square if you wish to do so. Or, you can choose to do nothing at all. That, too, can be a form of self-care in and of itself.
Joy List:
What does joy look like to you? What brings you joy? For this square, (1) create a list of one or more activities that bring you joy and (2) do that activity / one of those activities. Examples include, but are definitely not limited to:
- going out with friends and family
- cuddling with your fur babies
- visiting a museum
- sitting down to dinner with the family, phones put away
- singing your heart out at karaoke night or belting out your favorite tunes in the car at the top of your lungs
- going for a run
- getting a mani/pedi
- knitting
- treating yourself to coffee / ice cream / cocktails / a pair of shoes / a new lipstick, etc.
- having a spontaneous dance party, even if it's a party of one
- gardening
- bowling
- baking
- beating your significant other at the latest version of Mario Kart
- reading a good book
- having a long late night conversation with a loved one
- going through old photos
- creating something with your own hands
- other (________)
TIP: Keep your joy list close at hand for future reference (on your phone, the computer, or printed out and posted onto the fridge, your wellness board, or wherever it'll be handy for you to keep it). The list could be put to use as part of another wellness bingo board later in the year (hint, hint), or as a general resource if you ever find yourself needing a little extra spark of joy.
Gratitude:
Gratitude is the heart's recognition of the goodness in our lives (big or small) on the days when we feel on top of the world as well as the ones when we struggle just to keep up with its challenges. To practice gratitude is to be thankful for something or someone, and to recognize it and acknowledge it. Gratitude can express itself in several forms, including the following:
The above screenshot is from a larger article from Positive Psychology - positivepsychology(dot)com titled "20 Gratitude Exercises & Activities to Boost Wellbeing"
I incorporate 1, 2, 4 and 5 with some regularity and find each to be extremely rewarding ways to practice gratitude. The practice of Gratitude Stretching is my twist (har har) on Exercise 3 (Gratitude Rock) and Exercise 5 (Gratitude Meditation) - as I'm holding a stretch pose, I say in my head or aloud, someone or something that I'm grateful for and why I'm grateful for it/them.
ROW 4
Occupational Wellness:
Occupational wellness refers to self-care in your work environment (e.g., office, home, remote location, etc.) or creating an environment in your workspace that can cater to your self-care. This will mean different things to different people,, and will necessarily take into consideration the particular policies, pressures, rules and expectations of your workplace. A few examples of what occupational wellness might look like includes, but is not limited to:
- Packing a healthy lunch and/or snacks
- Stretching - if you spend most of your day in front of a computer, focus on your hands, arms, core, lower back, etc.. If you stand all day, focus some extra time stretching out your legs, calves, ankles, lower back, etc.
- (Actually) Taking your lunch break - don't eat at your desk while working; and, if applicable, taking your 15-minute breaks for that matter
- Making sure your workspace is safe, ergonomically sound, etc.
- Getting fresh air
- Staying hydrated throughout the day
- Staying connected with your colleagues. Check in with one another to see how people are doing.
If your in between jobs, self-care may involve
- Building / maintaining healthy habits and routines while you await your next opportunity;
- Learning to create boundaries to prevent burnout
- Engaging in meaningful activities volunteering, learning) that align with the things you value and that are important to you to create a balanced, purposeful and purpose-filled life (e.g., volunteering, working on personal growth, etc.)
Seasonal Fruits & Veggies:
Let's get in our fruits and veggies. This season offers a plethora of delicious fruits and vegetables. Roast 'em. Saute 'em. Add fruits or veggies to your oatmeal, salad, soup, pasta sauce, water, and/or smoothies. Or, just eat them as they are. If you have a farmers' market near you, grab a bag & head on over to see what's available. If seasonal fruits and veggies, or a farmers' market isn't easily accessible to you, or if that's not your thing, reach for what is available to you, whether a favorite of yours or something new-to-you.
Prioritize Sleep:
Quality sleep - a well-rested brain and body - can play a crucial role in our wellness, our wellbeing. 7 to 9 hours per night is the recommended amount of sleep for adults for optimal cognitive function, memory and overall health, with consistency and quality sleep being key components to maintaining good health. It can be hard to make time for it with all the things we have on our plates, but every effort counts. If this is a self-care area that is new to you, consider focusing on one of these activities this week, next week, this month, etc., and continue to work your way through the list below as you feel ready.
- Figure out your sleep needs - how many hours of sleep do you need each night? This is not how many hours you need to get by but what is the optimal amount of hours of sleep per night for you at this time in your life? Determine your needs and make it a priority to achieve this amount.
- Establish a consistent sleep schedule and work on keeping to it as often as possible. Go to bed and wake up at the same time every day, including weekends. This helps to regulate your body's internal clock. Look, I get this isn't always practical (or desirable - sometimes, sleeping in is a good thing!), but it might be worth a shot. When I first started trying to do this, I set 10/10:30pm as my target bed time, and would aim to start my digital detox around 9:30pm-ish. If I went out on Friday or Saturday nights, my goal bedtime would be pushed back to 12midnight but I wasn't too strict about it - I also didn't / don't go out that much so it's not really a problem but when starting out, I gave myself a broader window on the weekends.
- Create a wind-down bedtime routine. This signals the body to wind down. Ideally, the routine is something calming - reading a book, meditating, doesn't involve electronics or if so, minimally and its function is to aid with winding down - i.e., Headspace, audiobook, guided meditation app, etc.
- Create a sleep conducive environment in your bedroom. To promote better sleep, make your bedroom a cool, dark, quiet space.
- Draw boundaries; learn to say 'no'. Be mindful of your commitments and how they may interfere with your sleep needs. Part of this is reframing the role of sleep in your life - prioritizing sleep is not about sacrificing other things in your life. It's about recognizing how getting quality sleep regularly contributes to your well-being and choosing for it. Or, at the very least, choosing for it more often than not.
Check-in with a loved one re: YOU:
Yep, your turn to share about you. It's like the activity in Row 1, Column 5, but the focus of the check in is all about YOU. Look, I get this might not be the easiest thing to do. You can always try making your check in time about both you and them; just make sure that everyone is feeling like they are being heard and attended to, including you. Especially you if you are the type of person who tends to put others' needs before your own.
If it's really uncomfortable to initiate a discussion about yourself, consider sharing with them that one of the things you want to work on this year is wellness / self-care and that you're interested in focusing on _______ <<insert an area or activity you're interested in digging deeper>> and maybe share a little bit of why you chose that activity / area and/or what you might be hoping to achieve, etc.
[NOTE: you could check off this square and the first square this way and possibly others on the board depending on the activity / area you shared about.]
Body Care: The Winter Edit:
Looking after our bodies affects our physical health which in turn can have an impact on other aspects of our well-being, including our mental and emotional health. Body care as self care can take on many forms, from keeping our bodies fit (exercise), nourished (eating healthy; getting in fruits and veggies, staying hydrated) and well-rested (prioritizing sleep, having a good sleep hygeine routine, etc), and our minds engaged (brain teasers) and calm and clear (quiet time, meditation, journaling).
In the winter months, with the chilly temperatures, wind and rain, our skin and muscles can use a little TLC as well. Some ways to look after our bodies this winter include:
- Moisturizing skin from head to toe with product(s) that help combat dryness, flakiness and irritation and help maintain / strengthen the skin's natural moisture barrier.
- Having a good, emollient lip balm (or lip oil), tinted or otherwise to protect the delicate skin on our lips from wind, rain and cold temps.
- Likewise an effective eye serum or cream to protect the thinner skin around our eyes from dryness and irritation.
- Dialing back on harsh exfoliants and choosing for gentle exfoliating products that help to slough away dead skin cells and smooth the skin's texture without compromising or adversely impacting the skin's natural barrier.
- Making sure we have adequate clothing when making our way outside. No, I'm not talking about where your shoes or coat are from (but if you've got a winter style you want to share, be sure to mosey on over to the The Fit, The Fab and The Face: Outfit and Inspo Thread thread). Items like gloves, hat, scarves or heavier coats, sweaters, jackets, etc. help to prevent our skin from windburn and frostbite.
- Using a humidifier to keep our skin's moisture and healthy levels, particularly given that the combination of cold weather outdoors and central heating and hot showers indoors can cause skin to dry out and become irritated, itchy.
ROW 5
Hydrate:
Whether your daily water intake requirements are 8-glasses a day, half-your-body-weight or another metric, get in that water! Drink it warm or cold; with or without ice plain; with a slice of lemon, or herbs, or both. Or jazz it up with some water drops. Or reach for some coconut water or electrolyte infused water. Keep and maintain healthy hydration levels by sipping on water throughout your day.
Create - Arts - Crafts - Hobbies:
Creative activities can be a meaningful form of self-care, providing an outlet for stress, promoting relaxation, and assisting in regulating emotional and mental well-being. Examples of self-care through arts, crafts, hobbies and other creative activities include:
- Painting, drawing, sculpture, ceramics
- Writing stories or poetry, journaling, writing a letter to yourself or someone else
- Playing a musical instrument, singing, dancing
- Sewing, knitting, crocheting, macrame, pottery, making jewelry
- Photography, video design, editing, making films, making a collage
- Arts, crafts, architecture, creating a scrapbook, decorating the house, etc.
Let it go ... :
What that "it" is, is up to you. "It" can be:
- too much stuff (clutter; possessions, etc.)
- too many competing obligations
- a past mistake
- an unhealthy relationship
- an inaccurate belief about yourself (or your abilities) that limits or hinders you from achieving something or from living your best life
- unreasonable or unhealthy expectations of others
- others' unreasonable or unhealthy expectations of you
- inner criticism / negative self talk
- comparing yourself to others
- dwelling on the past
- needing constant attention / approval
- procrastination
- perfectionism
- rushing through life
- people pleasing
- excessive / constant screen time
- other (_________)
How to go about letting it go will likely depend on what it is that you are seeking to let go, the circumstances surrounding that, and your own personal style. Some resources that may be helpful to you include:
- For getting started with letting go, check out the article "Shed, Shift, and Begin Again: The Power of Letting Go" from Psychology Today - psychologytoday(dot)com - there's a section on "5 Ways to Practice Letting Go" in this article that may be worth reading.
- For letting go of being attached to your phone / phone anxiety, there's a helpful article on bemorewithless(dot)com titled "10 Gentle Ways to Break Up With Your Phone (Without Missing It)" that offers some practical tip
- For decluttering beauty products, check out: "How to Declutter Beauty Products in Just 15 Minutes a Day" from simplelifeofalady(dot)com or "How to (Finally) Declutter Your Beauty Supplies, According to Organizing Pros" from Real Simple online - realsimple(dot)com
Music-therapy:
Music can be a powerful tool as we practice self-care. It can help to reduce stress, lift us up, and serve as an outlet for regulating and expressing our emotions, whatever that emotion may be. It can offer us an opportunity to be carefree, singing at the top of our lungs with wild abandon or deeply contemplative, sitting in silence, ruminating over the lyrics or getting lost in the melody. It can afford us a chance to let go of feelings long hidden in our hearts and a way to release the built up stress and anxiety we hold in our bodies as we dance to the rhythm and beat of the song.
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Stretch (30 minutes):
Go for a full body stretch or focus on one or more body parts. Set aside 30 minutes to stretch those muscles at once or break up your time throughout the day, fitting in what works for you when you can, whether it's 5 minutes during your morning or afternoon break, during your lunch period, by way of your yoga, pilates, barre or ballet class, or as part of the warm up or cool down before your cardio or weight training session. Tailor your stretching routine (the movements and the duration) for what your body needs and what you can carve out in your schedule. For example:
- If you sit in front of a computer all day, consider spending a good chunk of this time on your hands and wrists, along with your neck, shoulders and core.
- If you stand all day, maybe you want to focus some extra time on your legs and back.
- If you don't have 30 full minutes to spare (or if that's just a long time to devote to stretching), break it up for something that's more realistic for your schedule, your body, your lifestyle - maybe it's 3 10-minute sessions throughout the day.
- Maybe it's a series of 2 - 5-minutes stretches while you're on hold, on a video conference call (a great time to do some ankle stretches without anyone seeing what you're doing on screen).
- Or, maybe you start off the month trying to get in 10 minutes a day and work your way up to 30 over a longer stretch of time (pun completely intended).