Description of activities (continued)
ROW 3:
Celebrate someone you know
Acknowledge, shout out, or give kudos or a heartfelt "thank you" to a friend, family member, coworker, business associate, your mail person, grocery store clerk, child's teacher, coffee barista, first responders, bus driver, bootcamp instructor, babysitter, dog walker, etc.
Celebrate the small wins
Life's big wins are often the results of many small steps. Celebrating small wins can boost mood, improve confidence and keep us motivated as we work through challenges and towards the larger goals. Celebrating the small wins can be done with a literal pat on the back; sharing your progress with family and friends, including your BIC friends if you are so inclined; and/or treating yourself to a little something. Give yourself an "atta girl" or "atta boy" or "atta <<insert your name>>" for moving yourself that much closer to your goal, and if you decide to treat yourself to a small reward, be it a cookie, lip balm, seeds for a flower garden, or something else, go for it!.
Celebrate a stranger
Sometimes, the simplest acts can have the most profound impact. Take a moment to:
Hold the door open for the person heading into the coffee shop behind you
Offer a sincere compliment for a stranger's style or actions (if it's safe and doesn't feel awkward or creepy)
Volunteer at a local food bank, animal rescue, shelter
Genuinely engage in more than just small talk with the new person at work, school, etc.
Pay it forward / perform a random act of kindness
Celebrate YOU
This is different than celebrating the small wins, which is about celebrating an accomplishment or feat, something done by you. This is about celebrating YOU, who you are. It's not about the milestones that you accomplish - though we're proud of you for those as well. This is about recognizing your worth and celebrating your existence. It's a thank you for being you. Some ways to do this might include:
List three traits you like about yourself (if that's too awkward, list 3 traits your friends would say they like about you)
Let go of negative self-talk. If it happens, just shake it off and reframe. Follow it up with an affirmation to yourself.
Buy yourself flowers aka Treat Yourself - be it to coffee, ice cream, sleeping in, a self-care day, a mani/pedi, a new lipstick, or actually a bouquet of flowers, etc.
Just Celebrate (Free Space)
Do something fun or nothing at all. This space is all yours.
ROW 4:
Digital Detox
Unplug from your electronics for a minimum of 30 minutes. Let your unwinding time really be about unwinding. You can combine it with another self-care activity and check off multiple squares at once - e.g., like stretching (that's this square and the third square in Row 5).
In previous wellness bingo games, the digital detox time has been before bed, but for this month, it can be anytime. Remember:
Hydrate
What's your water number? Are you all about 8-glasses or more a day? Or do you subscribe to the half your body weight philosophy? Or some other benchmark? Do you prefer filtered, still or sparkling water? Plain or infused with flavor? Warm or cold? With or without ice? Whatever your preferences, just do it! Hydrate, hydrate, hydrate!
Spring into skincare
Take a look at your current skincare routine to assess what, if any, changes need to be made as we head into spring. Some things to consider include:
switching to a lighter moisturizer
refreshing your cleansing routine - or your skincare routine in general
exfoliating - sloughing away dead skin from head to toe
looking into new or additional sunscreen for reapplication throughout the day
having a facial mist on hand to keep skin cool and hydrated
Treat Yourself
Taking intentional actions to look after your physical, mental an emotional well-being is key component to self-care and can take many forms, including, but not limited to:
Getting a massage, a mani/pedi, coffee, or a bite to eat with your significant other, a friend, relative, co-worker, or by yourself
Taking a relaxing bath or spending a little extra time in the shower after a long day
Getting enough sleep, sleeping in, getting to bed early
Treating yourself to something you might not otherwise - a new pair of shoes, earrings, a lipstick, perfume; coffee, a drink; flowers; a mani/pedi; a meal, dessert; a facial, massage, etc.
Spending time with friends or family you don't often see
An afternoon to yourself; calling a housecleaning service for a day; signing up and taking a cooking class; spending the day at a museum, going to yoga/pilates, etc.
Do something as a treat for yourself, be it purchasing a new beauty product for the March Passport to Beauty challenge (which I believe will start 3.19), or one of the activities listed above, or something else, but take time out to do something for you. To celebrate you.
Welcome, spring!
Spring brings (hopefully) warmer weather and weather permitting in your area, let's take advantage of all that the spring season has to offer by engaging in some of your favorite springtime activities. Or take this as an opportunity to try a new-to-you activity this spring. Here are some examples of spring activities that might be of interest to you:
- Visit a farm, a flower garden or flower farm, a butterfly conservatory
- Go berry picking or pick fruit at a local orchard
- Arrange flowers
- Decorate for spring
- Take a walk or go for a hike
- Ride a bike
- Plant a garden - fruits, vegetables, flowers
- Decorate Easter eggs
- See the Cherry Blossoms
- Fly a kite
- Make homemade lemonade
- Have a picnic
- Go to a baseball game
- Go to the park
- Jump in puddles
- Watch a sunrise or sunset
- Make a smoothie
- Bake a pie
- Go to a spring festival
- Have a BBQ
ROW 5:
Be Mindful
Practicing mindfulness involves staying present and fully engaged with the current moment. There are several ways to go about practicing mindfulness, including:
Being Still (with Music) - choose a piece of music you enjoy, create a comfortable space to sit or lie down and be still, listening and focusing on the instruments and if applicable, lyrics
Hitting Pause - Slowing Down - Being Present - Stopping to Smell the Roses
- Instead of grabbing a cup of coffee and rushing out the door, take a moment to sit down and enjoy each sip
- When going out for a walk, take your time to notice the details of nature and, if applicable (and safe to do so), literally stop and smell the roses
Prioritize Sleep
Quality sleep - a well-rested brain and body - can play a crucial role in our wellness, our wellbeing. 7 to 9 hours per night is the recommended amount of sleep for adults for optimal cognitive function, memory and overall health, with consistency and quality sleep being key components to maintaining good health. It can be hard to make time for it with all the things we have on our plates, but every effort counts. If this is a self-care area that is new to you, consider focusing on one of these activities this week, next week, this month, etc., and continue to work your way through the list below as you feel ready.
- Figure out your sleep needs - how many hours of sleep do you need each night? This is not how many hours you need to get by but what is the optimal amount of hours of sleep per night for you at this time in your life? Determine your needs and make it a priority to achieve this amount.
- Establish a consistent sleep schedule and work on keeping to it as often as possible. Go to bed and wake up at the same time every day, including weekends. This helps to regulate your body's internal clock. Look, I get this isn't always practical (or desirable - sometimes, sleeping in is a good thing!), but it might be worth a shot. When I first started trying to do this, I set 10/10:30pm as my target bed time, and would aim to start my digital detox around 9:30pm-ish. If I went out on Friday or Saturday nights, my goal bedtime would be pushed back to 12midnight but I wasn't too strict about it - I also didn't / don't go out that much so it's not really a problem but when starting out, I gave myself a broader window on the weekends.
- Create a wind-down bedtime routine. This signals the body to wind down. Ideally, the routine is something calming - reading a book, meditating, doesn't involve electronics or if so, minimally and its function is to aid with winding down - i.e., Headspace, audiobook, guided meditation app, etc.
- Create a sleep conducive environment in your bedroom. To promote better sleep, make your bedroom a cool, dark, quiet space.
- Draw boundaries; learn to say 'no'. Be mindful of your commitments and how they may interfere with your sleep needs. Part of this is reframing the role of sleep in your life - prioritizing sleep is not about sacrificing other things in your life. It's about recognizing how getting quality sleep regularly contributes to your well-being and choosing for it. Or, at the very least, choosing for it more often than not.
Stretch (30 minutes)
Go for a full body stretch or focus on one or more body parts. Set aside 30 minutes to stretch those muscles at once or break up your time throughout the day, fitting in what works for you when you can, whether it's 5 minutes during your morning or afternoon break, during your lunch period, by way of your yoga, pilates, barre or ballet class, or as part of the warm up or cool down before your cardio or weight training session. Tailor your stretching routine (the movements and the duration) for what your body needs and what you can carve out in your schedule. For example:
- If you sit in front of a computer all day, consider spending a good chunk of this time on your hands and wrists, along with your neck, shoulders and core.
- If you stand all day, maybe you want to focus some extra time on your legs and back.
- If you don't have 30 full minutes to spare (or if that's just a long time to devote to stretching), break it up for something that's more realistic for your schedule, your body, your lifestyle - maybe it's 3 10-minute sessions throughout the day.
- Maybe it's a series of 2 - 5-minutes stretches while you're on hold, on a video conference call (a great time to do some ankle stretches without anyone seeing what you're doing on screen).
- Or, maybe you start off the month trying to get in 10 minutes a day and work your way up to 30 over a longer stretch of time (pun completely intended).
Music-therapy
Music can be a powerful tool as we practice self-care. It can help to reduce stress, lift us up, and serve as an outlet for regulating and expressing our emotions, whatever that emotion may be. Whether you need to sit in quiet contemplation with the words to your favorite song, or to belt out lyrics at the top of your lungs without a care of your surroundings, or to move to the beat on your playlist, at the club, by yourself or with friends, have at it.
Quiet Time
Spending quality time with ourselves in solitude can be helpful to our well-being. No TikTok. No Instagram. No BIC. Spend some time in quietness, whether it be in the practice of being still or in meditation. Or, maybe you prefer to carve out some time in the day to journal (digitally or with pen-and paper). Or, take time out to focus on your breathing.
- Quiet Time - Set aside some time to just sit (or lie down) and be still. The first thing to do is to identify how much time you want to spend being quiet. Start out by easing into if you're doing this for the first time or if you're just short on time - 5 or 10 minutes.
- Journal - Write down your thoughts, in general, or in response to a prompt/question. If you're looking for a prompt to get you started, check out the online article from silkandsonder(dot)com titled "60 Fun Writing Prompts for When Your Journaling Practice Needs a Shake-Up"
- Breathe - There are a host of breathing exercises and techniques available online, including "10 Simple Breathing Exercises for Sleep and Relaxation" on the Oura Ring blog. If you do an internet search for "oura" and "10 simple breathing exercises" it should pull up an article titled "10 Simple Breathing Exercises for Sleep and Relaxation" - the post includes written instruction as well as illustration of the steps involved in the 10 different exercises described.