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Help! Hair Stylist needed 4 Matted Hair! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’•

Aloha to you all๐ŸŒธ


    1st, Iโ€™d like to start off this post by thanking anyone who is taking the time to read this. Iโ€™ve wanted to post this for a while, but always chickened out at the end, deleting what I wrote. But I told myself that I need to brave, that Iโ€™ll never get out of this nightmare unless I reach out for here it goesโ€ฆplease be kind๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ˜˜


   Iโ€™m desperately looking for a hair stylist who either specializes in Detangling Services, or knows someone who does. I know this isnโ€™t a common specialty, but I guarantee you, especially due to Covid, the need for empathetic stylists who are willing to take on this venture will be great. 

Due to Depression/Anxiety, losing my Father in Law to Covid-19. Losing my baby girl Morgan๐Ÿถ, my 12 year old Pitbull, and being in a volatile relationship I stopped taking care of myself at the beginning of 2020. It started w/ not brushing my extremely long, (naturally tangly) hair, to not washing it, and keeping it in a bun forever. Within weeks, I formed this horrific knot in the back of hair near my neck. I couldnโ€™t believe how fast it happened and I was so ashamed, but knew I had to reach outโ€ฆunfortunately my timing was horrible and as I reached out to stylists on Yelp, within a week, the country went into lockdown due to Covid.


Spearing you the โ€œnitty grittyโ€ details of the past year, I now have my entire head of hair matted and in dreads. Iโ€™ve tried so many different detanglers, brushes etc. Iโ€™ve watched every YouTube videos I can find, done research on how to fix this nightmare but get about 2hrs in a give up feeling so hopeless w/ the small progress Iโ€™ve made.

   But here we are, a year later, restrictions lifted, salons open, and Iโ€™m finally able to get the help Iโ€™ve so desperately needed. 

  So youโ€™d think, weโ€™ll go do it! Find a salon and nip this in the bud!!! Well thereโ€™s a problemโ€ฆ. to say Iโ€™m embarrassed is an understatement, to say Iโ€™m ashamed of myself is an understatementโ€ฆ Iโ€™m utterly completely mortified of the way I look and what Iโ€™ve done to myself. I avoid leaving my house at all costs, and donโ€™t even want to leave my house because of the sheer disgust I have towards my hair and the way I look. Iโ€™ve been able to get away w/ wearing beanies to hide my hair, but summer is right around the corner and Iโ€™ll no longer be able to get away with it. ๐Ÿ˜ข

With that said, If anyone knows any stylists that would be willing to help me, Iโ€™d greatly appreciate it.๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ Iโ€™m in the Orange County California area, but willing to travel for the right stylist. 

And If thereโ€™s anyone going through the same thing as me, please reach out, Im here to listen and hopefully I can help you out too๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿ’• 

In Good Health,








Re: Help! Hair Stylist needed 4 Matted Hair! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’•

Hey that's me this year! I'm just here to say, don't ever be embarassed of your appearance. We all feel like everyone is judging us. No one gives a st. I'm completely disgusting RN, my hair is one dreadlock, but I'm more focused on what my children think of me than strangers. They don't have to like my appearance but they also don't have to look. They're not the ones who are going to help with my mental health. I hope you fixed your hair so you feel better, either way you put your shoulders back and know you will get through anything. You always have.

Re: Help! Hair Stylist needed 4 Matted Hair! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’•

Hi, gorgeous!! @Mrsmoorefoto37 


I'm so sorry that I also don't have a stylist recommendation, but I just wanted to say that you. are. absolutely. incredible. You are so, so, so brave to be going through all of this. Stay strong, beautiful love. 



Re: Help! Hair Stylist needed 4 Matted Hair! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’•

Did you get the matt out? I'm going thru same thing!!

Re: Help! Hair Stylist needed 4 Matted Hair! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’•

@FullCoverageBB @danielledanielle 


Thank you both from the bottom of my heart for your kind and uplifting replies๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ I canโ€™t begin to tell how much they mean to me. ๐Ÿ’•

You both have given me HOPE that I CAN DO THIS!!! Speaking of โ€œdoing thisโ€ I just found out thereโ€™s a stylist down in San Diego who is going to help me out next week!! ๐Ÿ˜ณ๐Ÿ‘๐Ÿผ Im so relieved but absolutely terrified of the thought of her even glancing at my hair๐Ÿ˜ข  But you both have given me that extra boost of confidence that I so desperately need๐Ÿฅฐ


Thank you both again!! Your absolute ANGELS ๐Ÿ˜‡ ๐Ÿ˜‡ ๐Ÿ˜˜๐Ÿ’•๐Ÿฅฐ


#mattedhair #hairhelp #depression #hairstylist

Re: Help! Hair Stylist needed 4 Matted Hair! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’•

Hi there! Was the hair stylist able to get the knot out?? Also, Iโ€™m in SD and going through a similar situation! Do you mind sharing the stylist you went to? Thank you! 

Re: Help! Hair Stylist needed 4 Matted Hair! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’•

@Mrsmoorefoto37, I couldn't be happier to read this!! Please keep us updated. I hope she is able to get your hair back to it's beauty. Xoxoxo

Re: Help! Hair Stylist needed 4 Matted Hair! ๐Ÿ™๐Ÿผ๐Ÿ’•

@Mrsmoorefoto37 , I don't have a stylist rec, but I wanted to say, thanks for your openness, take care of yourself and be kind to yourself.

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