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First off, I know I always say this, but I really do mean it. I'm so sorry I don't post enough and always seem to be missing in action lately. Just know that just because I'm not here does not mean that I don't love/care about all of you.
Okay... here is the EMERGENCY!!! First of all, this is not the type of emergency like Florida and none of my students are in any form of danger/distress. So if I alarmed anyone (especially in our current climate), I thoroughly apologize. But I do have an emergency of sorts so let me stop killing time and start explaining:
Problem: As with any middle school experience, there are always those outer fringe students that are considered the "loner" kids. They tend not to connect well with their classmates, sit alone at lunch, and basically stay to themselves.
My role as a teacher: For years I have tried to reach out to these kids by trying to learn about their personal interests, not just what they like from my subject matter. More recently, even before I actually begin the dialogue with them, some of them will have already pointed out one of my Pusheen plushies or a particular Tokidoki I have on my desk. And almost as if we had just cast our own specific Harry Potter spell, this student and I will instantly from that point on have an instant connection from then on! In fact, students such as these will come 1x to 2x a week for lunch in my room. (School cafeterias are truly a battleground for students unfortunately, especially the ones I am describing.) Lunchtime conversations usually delve into most things pop culture. (think anything you could currently find in HotTopic or ThinkGeek.)
The Premise/Current Day: Yesterday during a staff meeting, we began discussing a student who is having trouble fitting in. A teacher in the meeting went on to say, "Wouldn't it be nice if our school had an afterschool club for kids like her?" Now, personally, I was kind of put off by the "kid like her" comment (no words.. simply, just no words anymore are left in me these days) but this teacher's comment nonetheless lit the spark of ingenuity of me. Why couldn't there be a club for students just like her and everyone else, just like all the students I continue to eat lunch with year after year?!?!?!
So here is where I desperately need the help of my BIC friends: First of all, I believe that those of you who are reading this, are most likely totally on board with everything I have just written here. If you were a teacher before (or maybe even currently are), you would probably be a similar teacher to me, the type of teacher who acts as both a friend as well as a teacher to their students and always provides their classroom as a safe space. I also extremely honest with my kids (to the point that it has sometimes gotten me in trouble with adults over the years , another story, another time. I believe I have a right to always be up front with my students.) On a totally different note but still related, you, yourself, might have just been exactly like that kid my fellow staff member referenced, when describing during your own middle school years. You can probably even relate to what some of these kids are going through nowadays to your own experiences.
So.. my new personal mantra is to try to turn something negative into a positive. (specifically since the events of Parkland) With that being said... Here's my actual goal:
Let's get down to business... Here is where I specifically need your help:
Here are the specific components that I need help with:
Okay... I think you guys get the general idea. Thank you in advance for both taking the time to read this as well as always/continuing to be such wonderful friends of mine. If you wouldn't mind, please tag as many people as you can possibly think of who might be able to help me out on this. THE MORE THE MERRIER!!!
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FYI.. I'm including screens of the two STEM camps that I both designed (from the ground up) and am now running this summer. This might help give you a better understanding of what the current expectations are for written descriptions. (for the digital brochure/described earlier in my post)
You are the best! How caring you are! You want to bring change. By doing something. That is big! I am lurking here and am supportive of all the caring people who have ideas and good wishes for your enterprise. What a great group of people here!
@willa25 I'm an SLPA (speech and language therapist assistant) so I'm definitely familiar with kids who have trouble fitting in. Here are some of my ideas:
1- For topics and discussions, I think you could have some "challenge of the week” style like we have here in BIC- you give a topic for the week- best villain, best hero, best anti-hero, best bromance, best couple, best team, etc and when they come to the group they have to debate who the best for the category is that week. You can have them write an essay/short story of what they would do if they were a particular superhero/anime character or if they suddenly woke up with superpowers one day.
2- You could also have the kids come up with their own comic book (original or fan-fiction) thoughout the course and at the end of the semester have them submit it and vote on the best one. If you could get them published in some way, or submitted somewhere, you could use that to lure in parents (saying you got something published is definitely something you can add to you’re college application).
3- To advertise, you could make sort of pop art posters with not-so-mainstream anime or with references only certain kids would get.
Hope this helps!
@willa25 I love that you reached out to the community re this. I’ve had an exhausting weekend already so I’ll keep it short. I was the kid who wasn’t part of any one group, clique or type because I was in or had friends in every group! I genuinely love people and can find a way to connect with almost anyone. There must be a student like that in your school that you can talk to that could help you get this off the ground. Not a kid in the popular group, but a kid that is well liked by a wide swath of other kids. They could be your ambassador to prevent this becoming the “loser’s” group but rather have it labeled as it truly is: the forward thinkers, the Trail Blazers, the future true leaders! Am I making any sense in my overloaded brain?...
@willa25 - This is such a caring and thoughtful endeavor! I was one of "those kids." Since schools today push STEM at the detriment of liberal studies, I suggest a combination of what others have said: take their interest such as anime, show a movie or short film, and then discuss the history and how it is made. You could even teach knitting and crochet--these crafts have been proven to relieve stress! Whatever you decide, I think it should be fun and not feel like yet another class.
Fun topic, @willa25!
As I mentioned in my response to @itscarin's movieclub idea, I have a child in the upper end of your target age range.
1. I recommend letting the kids vote on the name of the club so they feel a sense of ownership.
2. My daughter said she doesn't think kids will want to give presentations or do research projects for an after school club. They already have enough homework and want to relax and enjoy themselves after school.
However, a self-driven discussion group focused on pop culture (books, manga, tv shows, movies, youtube would be a fun way to learn and get to know other kids. She said she wouldn't even mind reading the book or watching the movie on her own time and then discussing together.
During her last year of elementary school, one of the teachers had a lunchtime book club and it got so popular he had to move it out of his classroom into the courtyard to accomodate all the kids who wanted to join - She loved that!
3. School announcements, posters on the wall, school Twitter/Snapchat/FB
However, if you want to limit the attendees to certain students who may be struggling with socialization, you could make it be by teacher invitation/nomination only, however, that could have the opposite effect of making the kids feel like outcasts - not totally sure about this...
4. I'd steer away from STEM if you are wanting a pop culture focus, but I think your idea fits in the realm of art, literature, social studies and humanities, which can help give the kids more well rounded perspective and can also help them with critical thinking skills/social commentary/comparison between art/fiction and current events, etc....
5. I like the idea of letting the kids choose the topics to discuss.
Good luck!!!! Have fun with it! ❤️
This is great what you are doing @willa25. I’m not sure if this would be redundant with the existing curriculum, but would it be possible to frame this as a media literacy opportunity? For instance, Pop Culture Analysis (or Critique or Commentary, etc.)? It could be structured such that a chosen text could be analyzed each week, with objectives following a typical media literacy curriculum (and discussion of production techniques, intended meaning, implied meaning, potential personal and cultural effects, opportunities for creation of one’s own artifact, etc.).
@PrettyPaint @willa25 Yes! Exactly this! ❤️
@willa25 What you're describing to me sounds like the Breakfast Club (the movie from the 80s with everyone's favorite -- Molly Ringwald). I know you're talking about making it anime and more current, and I don't know if you have room for it, but it might be cool to do a club based on 80s movies. I could see watching Goonies, Labyrinth, 16 Candles, the Breakfast Club, Drop Dead Fred, Little Monsters, etc. Even if you don't watch all movies, it would still be a cute name based on the movie.
If you made it a film class you could turn it into a film critique class. Make them write a page or two analysis on movies, or talk about the different effects that are used in the movie, themes, or historical/societal context. There's some really racist stuff in 16 Candles that could be worth discussing, and Molly's character is very much a loner. Goonies has a background story about the parents having to leave their houses for some developers.
@willa25 I agree with @itscarin that a movie club would be awesome!
My daughter is on the upper end of your target age range and I asked what type of club she would like and movie or makeup clubs were her top choices.
In addition to movies, she and her friends have been really obsessed with '90s Nickelodeon cartoons lately (Rugrats, Catdog, Rocket Power). Also, if the kids are into anime, you could even let them watch some anime (double check it first, because there are a lot of options that are not appropriate for school).
@Tamara76 Rocket Power was my life!!!!
Name: Geek culture collective? stealing a key word from @Mcakes
I don't know about STEM components, but for an educational perspective, it would be interesting to learn about the historical and sociological aspects of the topics you're exploring. For instance, a brief history of anime. The foundations of kawaii and how its popularity spread across the world.
@willa25 As soon as I can focus, I'll give this some serious thought. It's funny; I was just telling my kids recently how tough cafeteria lunches were; there was never enough room to sit, and the worst thing to happen would be to have to ask permission to sit at some other group's table! That wasn't even a guarantee.
This sounds like a great idea @willa25! Hope you can get this off the ground. If I think of something I'll let you know... right now nothing is coming to mind. 😞
Good luck! Your students are very lucky to have such an involved and caring teacher ❤️
This sounds like such a wonderful idea @willa25! Of course it is you that would think of doing something like this You have such a big heart and are so good about making everyone feel included.
Here are some ideas that just popped into my head, I'll probably come back with more as I mull this over!
I was in an after school program they started when I was in high school. There weren't really that many people interested in it from 7th to 12th grade. We maybe had 15 people. But it was a group of us outcasts that weren't popular, it was fun. We had one hour of schoolwork (we all hated that. Seriously hated it.) And than an hour of playtime. Usually something like in the gym or a movie. I wish they had done something like shown everyone our hobbies, or brought in people to teach us new crafts and hobbies.
@willa25 I love your club idea! I wish I could have had such a caring teacher like you when I was in middle school, that was a hard time for me. I wish I could have avoided the school cafeteria at times.
I like the idea of having the kids take turns "teaching" the other students. I think public speaking is a valuable skill to have. And as you mentioned, they would also gain some tech skills, whether it's by making a PowerPoint, video, etc. Perhaps a combination of "show and tell" and your lesson plans could work? Personally, I always loved whenever we got the rare chance to do something hands-on.
@willa25 Oh I wish I could give this post a million hearts! I have so many thoughts an will post again once I organize, but you are such a saint for even just contemplating this! Sadly, it sounds like middle school hasn't really changed much since I was a weePuff. You speak the truth about the perils of the cafeteria (I ABSOLUTELY was one of the kids that ate lunch in our homeroom rather than risk the certain torment of the cafeteria as both a new kid and a visible foreign minority) and getting kids to get involved in activities they actually like, versus bowing to the "cool" kids.
Side note - Am I the only one that wants to participate in @willa25's two existing STEAM camps? They sounds so much more engaging than what we had in middle school! 🙂
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