Facial hair-please help!

[momotarutaru]

Hello, looking for some help from anybody in the same boat. I have very dark thick hair and have always had a mustache from a young age. I used to bleach it shave it wax it, and now I usually pluck it.  No matter what I do or try, I still have one of those 5 o’clock shadows, which makes me incredibly insecure. I’ve used color, corrector concealer powder, even with setting spray, but it either melts away halfway through the day or the products I use don’t even cover the dark hairs coming in.  Does anyone else have this problem or any suggestions? I’ve reached out to different demographics with no luck.   Thank you.