Have you tried Buxom? They have nice colors from cream, sheer/sheen and glitter. It have a minty/tingly feeling but it doesn't hurt and is not intense unless you've got sensitive or dry/cracked/hurt lips. It's the least sticky lipgloss I've tried, but I have found it to be a bit sticky on days when I have dry/flaky/cracked lips. When my lips have med/decent moisture and is smoothish, it's not sticky.
I love the Lip Love Honey glosses from Urban Decay, they've got a nice slick feel so they don't get gummy or tacky on the lips. No worries abount "strings" of lip gloss at your bottom and top lip when opening your mouth! They're packed with antioxidants and humectants to keep lips hydrated and the colors are very sheer and give a super slick shine!
Just squeeze out a tiny bit, then run the applicator over your lips to distribute as opposed to consistantly pressing on the tube when applying.