I would try Make Up For Ever HD Microfinish Blush which combines mattifying and reflecting powders to create a soft-focus effect that is especially designed to be used in front of cameras. You can look at the colors and read more about it at: http://sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P258100
I hope this helps you.
For your skin and cheeks to glow try the NARS illuminators. Copacabana can be mixed in your face lotion or foundation to pick up the surrounding light and make your skin glow, or by placing Orgasm along your cheek bones you can place a pigmented glow.