Clinique has a good skincare line. I have the same issues and have tried their products, and without having been disappointed, I didn't see the results I expected. But it's the best line I've tried so far.
One big helper is Sephora's green-tinted primer. I use it alone, under make up. Or when I'm in a hurry, I mix it in my Clinique Almost make-up tinted moisturizer. Use Benefit Boing! concealer to spot conceal any blemishes or redness and dust with a light powder and you're good to go. My skin stays even and fresh looking all day.
For redness, dryness and sensitivity, I would look at Skyn Iceland's Redness Relief Kit: http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P26
I also love the Korres Yogurt regimen, which is nourishing and moisturizing for all skin types: http://www.sephora.com/browse/product.jhtml?id=P21
Clinique and Murad have product regimens specifically for redness, too.
I hope this helps!
Have you ever tried the Rareminerals line? It's 30% off right now (they are going to repackage--they told me for February!) and wtih the VIB sale that starts in a few hours another 20% off! that is if the 30 doesn't end for the vib sale...
but it is great for sensitive skin and skin prone to redness. It's super gentle! I was having some redness problems last winter and switched to rareminerals (I got a 30 day $20 set) and it worked wonders when everything else was just further irritating!
I think the Clinique skincare range for rosacea would be the best for your skin type (dry, sensitive, redness)