I think tha a shiny red lip, like a shimmery gloss with a bronze shadow and black liner with lots of lashes would be beautiful. Make sure you curl your lashes and use waterproof for all that dancing. Bobbi Brown High Shimmer Gloss in Black Ruby is so pretty. Sephora Glossy Gloss in 07 Femme Fetale Red. I just bought the Lorac holiday lip set for $25 and it has a very pretty red with gold glitter and a bunch of other very wearable colors. Nars shadow in Galopagos would be pretty.
I suggest a nude lip, with a frosty eye. I think your skin should be satin or slightly dewy, with highlighter here and there. The result will be a fresh-faced, sparkling, beautiful look that isn't TOO crazy.