It might be worth your while to try using products that contain Glycolic acid. While it can be drying, it helps with acne AND aging, so it sounds to be right up your alley!
I was going to suggest DDF's Glycolic Acid cleanser, but when I did a search so I could post a link for you, I couldn't find it---perhaps it was discontinued? Anyway, Peter Thomas Roth has a 3% Glycolic cleanser that may help you. I'd look into it!
Also, have you ever heard of/tried using the Clarisonic brush? It's basically a spinning brush that you use while cleansing that helps exfoliate the skin and helps give a cleanser wash. It has done wonders for my skin!
Hope this helps and best of luck!